As the credit crunch tightens its grip I have noticed the trend towards things that remind us of "The Good Old Days" or what we perceive to be the good old days, a leaning towards 1950's fashions, wholesome food, and the good old family seaside holidays.I was fortunate enough a couple of weeks ago to be invited by my lovely friend Mags to spend a week with her in Norfolk at a small fisherman cottage in Wells-next-to-the -Sea.
I know little of the area but here I was to experience the uplifting feeling that "nostalgia" can give you, a lightening of the heart and mind and emptying of nervous energy that grips me in my daily life and an understanding as to why when the going gets rough, people look back and find the simple things they enjoyed.
There are places in the world that seem to go at a much slower pace than the rest of the world, chugging along in some respects but keeping abreast of the 21st century world on the whole, however they do life at their own pace.

This part of the Norfolk coast has that unique ability of staying still, but having said that its not dull and in need of modernizing its just managed to hold onto the nice things of the past.
The roads are quieter, the people walk slower, they stop and talk, muse about this and that and appear to be unhurried and contented.
Its always easy to say these things when one is on holiday, when you are not in a hurry yourself you notice more but I really don't think this was the case.
I have been to lots of quiet places around the world but the tension of everyday life can still be felt rippling under the surface.
Not so at Well-next-to-the-Sea ( which incidentally is not next to the sea, its next the the estuary but who's counting!), the town was busy when we arrived on Saturday afternoon, there was a buzzing holiday atmosphere
, fishermen selling fresh fish, people enjoying ice cream and fish and chips on the quayside.The tide was out and yachts laid helpless on the sand waiting patiently for the return of the sea, so they could once again bob up and down in their graceful effortless way.
We walked along the sea defense to the beach, and that is exactly what it was beach no sea to be seen, just miles and miles of wet sand.
The dogs loved every moment running in and out of shallow lakes of salt water left behind, the rows of beach huts painted in pastel seaside colours reminded me of the Marks and Spencer advert for their summer collection.
Twiggy and her fellow models rushing between the brightly paint wooden structure singing " I'm going to marry a Lighthouse Keeper" back to the 21st century's search for nostalgia.
We had the most glorious week walking alon
g the Peddars Way from Holkham to Cley-next-to-the-Sea ( which is even further from the sea than Wells) and back again. Taking a boat to Blakney Point to see the seals, even Flora the Explorer enjoyed her trip, keeping an eagle eye on the ocean for pirates and such like.!!Wet and tired dogs each evening steamed in front of a roaring fire whilst we ate fish and chips and watched TV or read endlessly those books we had been meaning to read.

Our days were filled with sunshine and friendship, wildlife and water, good food and good company who could want and ask for more in these dull and difficult times certainly not me.
I can fully understand why there is a fashion for "nostalgia" when life gets tough bec
ause the things that cost very little are the things that help us cope and make us feel much better.Blossom



10 comments:
That was lovely Blossom, just what I needed on this cold, cold evening.
I do agree with your thoughts on nostalgia and funnily enough I blogged about nostalgia myself a few days ago - it was homework for my writing group.
My stepson and family live in north Norfolk, it is lovely isn't it?
It's a lovely part of the world and your post and photos were a wonderful tribute to it.
Blossom, as usual, your post has many levels to enjoy.
There are always the marvelous photos, and the acute observations of dogs, and nature, and the nature of friendship.
Then, this time round, you have also deftly pointed us in the direction of why it is that we do cherish certain memories. Those memories rarely have much to do with currency expenditure, but do have strong connections to expenditure of imagination, wonder, love.
xo
Hello Blossom. I agree with Cait and Chris. I fell in love with east Anglia when we bought our first house near Great Dunmow in Essex and used frequently to travel to the coast. I always feel at home in Suffolk, Norfolk or Essex (well that part west and north of the A12) now. And the sea at this time of year, windswept beaches, a certain lonely feeling, an absence of crowds, dogs racing on the sand. Marvellous!
Well, this is my part of the world Blossom, so I am glad you appreciated it also. Yes, life does seem slower here. People take time to stop for a mardle (a chat) and as a newcomer here, many many years ago, and of course a lot younger with small children and a busy life, it irked me when I wanted to get on and here were these locals standing about chatting. Nowadays, older, wiser and definitely MUCH slower in more ways than one, I appreciate it. I avoid going into Wells and Blakeney etc., during the season, one can't move for visitors. But out of season, when it's unseasonably mild as it was earlier in the month, it is just wonderful to walk for miles on deserted beaches, and then have fish and chips at Wells. I shall be going again in a month or so, and look forward to it enormously.
I've always thought Norfolk was too wide and draughty, maybe you have changed my mind.
Oh Blossom, I have been waiting for this, and I was not disappointed, absolutely wonderful post, and gorgeous photo's too.
Sorry I could not meet up with you at Wells, but there will always be a next time I'm sure.
Wells always has a place in my heart for me, I visited for the first time when I was only 15 years of age and from then on it has been a favourite place for me.
This post is so good that it should be entered perhaps for the Eastern Daily Press Norfolk Magazine.
Thank you for sharing with us Blossom, really lovely.
xx
Hello Blossom
I do apologise for clogging up your comment box with this but would it be possible for you to drop me an email at your convenience?
I'm working on something at the moment that I think may be of interest to you both as a grandparent and a blogger.
Cheers!
Kerry
Kerry@digital-outlook.com
Lovely pictures and post Blossom, makes me feel like booking a summer holiday on this cold Autumn day.
What an idyllic five mins I have just spent resting here Blossom, I'm now off to look at your next trip !!
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